When I was graduating high school and college I felt a lot of pressure to make decisions that would lead to the best outcome. I felt like there was a right way to live and until I had those things lined up properly, I was a failure. That if you screw up your twenties, your life is ruined. We put so much emphasis on being young in our society that I had no idea how much life there is to be had, and that we all make choices based on the information we have at the time.